Fight the Frump: Let’s Get Dressed!
Do you feel frumpy? Look, no one has to live up to society’s standard of beauty. No one needs to be a size 4. But what I’m talking about has nothing to do with your figure and everything to do with the...
View ArticleFight the Frump: A Good Haircut Makes a Huge Difference!
We’re in the early part of our Fight the Frump week! And for this edition, I want to talk about hair. But first, let’s go back to some basic principles. Fighting the frump is NOT about vanity and not...
View ArticleFight the Frump: Mastering Natural Makeup
Let’s fight the frump today by talking about makeup! All week we’ve been talking about getting rid of that frumpy feeling by taking care of our appearance and showing that we respect ourselves. It’s...
View ArticleFight the Frump: Finding Clothes that Fit and Flatter
It’s Fight the Frump week here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and today we’re going to talk about how to find items of clothing that fit and flatter you. We’ve talked about hair and makeup so far,...
View ArticleFight the Frump: Looking Put Together with Outfits
Are you ready to create outfits that work for you? We’ve been talking all week about how to fight the frump, covering hair, natural-looking makeup, and finding clothes that fit and flatter. Now we’re...
View Article10 Tips for Winter Pajamas that Are Warm–but Still Sexy!
How do you choose sexy pajamas–that are still warm? Recently I wrote a “Fight the Frump” series at the blog, where I encouraged all of us to try to spend just a few minutes looking put together every...
View ArticleReader Question: Why Can’t I Get In the Mood?
Do you find that you can’t get in the mood and can’t get mentally ready for sex because you dread it? For the next few days we’re talking on the blog about how to embrace your sexuality, and I want to...
View Article10 Stories of Big-Bust Shame from Hitting Puberty Early
Does hitting puberty early, and growing a bust early, contribute to sexual shame? All too often it can. A few weeks ago I asked on Facebook and Twitter for women’s experiences if they grew breasts...
View ArticleCan We Talk Honestly about Teenagers and Weight Problems?
I’m going to open a big can of worms. I’m getting ready for people to throw tomatoes at me and yell at me. But, please, please, can we talk honestly about something today? I really think we need to...
View ArticleAsk Sheila: My Daughter Wants to Wear PINK Clothes!
What do you do when your daughter wants to wear a brand name of clothes that you’re uncomfortable with? Today for our Ask Sheila video we’re featuring a mom who has issues with her 12-year-old who...
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